Day Four – Removing Mental Clutter

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it. Proverbs 4:23

A few days ago, life felt intense! Two close friends shared their concerns about what is happening on Capitol Hill and how it could impact Black America. Each discussion ventured into unfamiliar territory. While I can put a face to what’s going on, I don’t fully understand the internal workings and couldn’t offer any comfort regarding our nation’s instability, except for giving personal advice urging them to keep striving for their dreams. That’s something I recommend everyone do in uncertain times. Let’s pray for positive outcomes in every situation.


PRAYER

Heavenly Father, a spirit of discontent looms over America, wreaking havoc both within and beyond our borders. This spirit sows seeds of doubt, strife, envy, hatred, and self-righteousness, leading to reckless and abusive behavior among people. As a result, it robs us of dignity in our interactions, both publicly and privately. Lord, I ask you to bind this spirit and release the spirit of love—love for oneself, love for family, love for humanity, love for our country, and most importantly, love for you. Amen.   

Day Three – Removing Mental Clutter

I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people, for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 1Timothy 2:1-2 NIV

I remember feeling disheartened after President Obama’s first election victory, especially with how my husband reacted when I accepted Obama as my Commander-in-Chief. Adding to my sadness, a few African American friends and family disowned me for voting for Obama’s opponent.

At that time, I was running a small online business that wasn’t large enough to require filing taxes with the IRS [Internal Revenue Service]. I had heard Barack Obama felt there should be a cap on how much money a person could earn on internet sales before falling into a tax bracket. Because of this, I supported Mitt Romney for president, believing he wouldn’t impose taxes on online sales.

I immediately recognized Barack Obama’s intelligence and polished image as a politician, along with the significant support he garnered from influential figures like Oprah. As a result, my main concern with this particular election was voting to ensure Barack didn’t win! Again, he was a. strong opponent, and his victory would affect how I reached my goal of becoming a large retailer.

Sadly, my fears were realized. As President Obama took office, he implemented changes to increase government revenue, including taxation, that impacted my small minority business. Yes, I could have applied for a business loan for minorities, but that would have placed me on several radars, something I wanted to avoid. Yet, despite my worries, I found success during his presidency. I was determined to demonstrate that I could thrive despite challenges.

At one point, I was making at least $70,000 a year, and yes, it went untaxed. As stated, the money was well spent and reinvested within my small company.

I ran my business using a name that didn’t show I was a Black woman, a strategy I learned in my college business class. My priority was to ensure my customers felt confident that their orders would be shipped quickly, rather than focusing on the owner’s identity.

As I mentioned, I didn’t want Obama to win because I believed he and his administration would hinder my growth as a business owner. Honestly, my voting decisions aren’t influenced solely by party affiliation; I also consider campaign promises. I would have voted the way I did, regardless of whether the candidate was a Democrat or a Republican.

As a Black American, I prioritize campaign promises over party affiliation when I vote. My main focus is on achieving financial stability and fostering generational wealth. I believe that determination should serve as the foundation for success, rather than being swayed by who is leading the nation. After all, promises are often like pie crust—easily made and easily broken.

The closure of my flourishing business cannot be attributed to Obama; rather, it stemmed from my own decisions and my struggle to prioritize family obligations beyond just my husband and children. Ultimately, I lost sight of my goals while seeking emotional fulfillment and acceptance from those who didn’t recognize me as part of their community or family.

As a result, I found myself flat on my back and no one to help me get back up. My husband and my children were sick and tired of me and the whole lot that steam from wanting to be a part of where I came from. My husband and children love me, sadly, none of them knew how to operate my business; therefore, they couldn’t help me as they watched my dream die helplessly because I wasn’t mentally available to guide them. Now I see why it’s essential for companies to have handbooks outlining their procedures and protocols from the start. These documents ensure consistency, clarity, and efficiency in the workplace.

I recognize that I am in a period of growth, gradually gaining strength as I move away from experiences that once constrained me. Today, I find myself in anticipation of a business call that holds significant potential. I am currently engaged in the process of relaunching my online business, with a focus on promoting my designs, which I firmly believe are of great value. While my objectives are still in the early phases of development, I am encouraged by the initial signs of momentum and support for my endeavors despite who is my Commander and Chief.

Now that we’ve reflected on my past experiences, let us turn our attention to the important issue at hand: achieving financial security. Despite the obstacles we may face, we have the resilience to navigate through them. I encourage you to be mindful of how confusing or negative information can cloud judgment and potentially impede progress. It is vital to remain optimistic and not be swayed by those who amplify fear. The pursuit of what we truly need as individuals is a commendable endeavor that sometimes involves telling people to mind their business. God’s word say’s we should strive for “peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.” Let’s pray!

PRAYER

Heavenly Father, we express our gratitude for the blessing of this day. We humbly request the strength to navigate life’s challenges as we include the leaders in every capacity in our prayers, regardless of their rank or responsibilities. We ask that you be with them continuously and guide their hearts and minds in making decisions that impact those under their leadership, for they serve as stewards. We seek protection for all through your mighty hand of grace and mercy. Amen.

Day Two – Removing Clutter

Last night, I struggled to organize my donation and giveaway piles. My body was tired, but my spirit urged me to continue. While sorting my books, I discovered a small collection of poems by Helen Steiner Rice. Finding the tiny book of faithful gems prompted me to call a friend who used to own it. Our nearly hour-long conversation touched on my personality and the challenges facing dreamers. Yes, I am a dreamer.

I can generate brilliant and mediocre ideas, but I often struggle to realize my dreams. I’m not alone, and my shortcomings don’t always hold me back. When it’s time to act, God helps me fulfill His purpose, providing strength during challenging moments. As I write my truths, I know once again that I’m not alone; therefore, I encourage others facing similar struggles to join me in making positive changes to achieve an abundant lifestyle.

I have no prayers for today. Sorry. But! I’m sharing a poem of faith with the hope it’s inspirational. Have a great day living your best life! ~Annette

Climb ‘Til Your Dream Comes True

Often your tasks will be many,
And more than you think you can do.
Often the road will be rugged
And the hills insurmountable, too.

But always remember, the hills ahead
Are never as steep as they seem,
And with Faith in your heart start upward
And climb ‘Til you reach your dream.

For nothing in life that is worthy
Is never too hard to achieve
If you have the courage to try it
And you have the Faith to believe.

For Faith is a force that is greater
Than knowledge or power or skill
And many defeats turn to triumph
If you trust in God’s wisdom and will.

For Faith is a mover of mountains.
There’s nothing that God cannot do,
So start out today with Faith in your heart
And “Climb ‘Til Your Dream Comes True” !

– Helen Steiner Rice (1900 – 1981)

Reset on Decluttering – Day One

When the student is ready the teacher will appear. When the student is truly ready . . . The teacher will Disappear. Tao Te Ching

Greetings from the Midwest! For the past few years, I’ve felt like I was on a struggle bus. But today, I’m in a much better place—mentally and emotionally, spiritually I’m riding in an Uber! It’s clear to see the true and living God is showing His presence in my life.

I’m now moving forward with intention. I’ve started decluttering my space and surrounding myself with people who uplift me. Some are here by invitation, others have come into my life naturally through shared interests, and a few have intruded! Can you guess which ones I’ve firmly nudged towards the exit? While it’s not always easy to remove people from our lives, preparing ourselves mentally and emotionally for their absence is crucial. Now, let’s discuss my ongoing mission to help us eliminate clutter and embrace a more positive lifestyle.

Today, I’m tackling my book collection! I hadn’t realized just how many books I owned until I ran out of space on my shelf. I kept voicing my dilemma about parting with the ones I love. Surely, I can’t love every book on my shelves! In reality, I often fell in love with the titles without even knowing the content. My approach to selecting books mirrors how I used to choose boyfriends: I’d pick someone based on looks, only to discover later that he was a bad read—truly rotten to the core!

Now, I consider many qualities that make a good person great for me. Not that I’m looking for a partner, but just saying! And if my husband were to pass away, I won’t be replacing him with a human. Instead, I’m planning to get a dog and the best quilting machine available!  Let’s pray!

PRAYER

Father God, thank you for your grace and mercies. Please give us clarity on how to declutter our homes and our lives. Amen