“We are all of us stars, and we deserve to twinkle. We are a tapestry of many colors, many faiths, and many stories, but the thread that holds us together is the same: the divine spark of womanhood.” — Adapted from Maya Angelou

Hey y’all! Oh my goodness, I have been so deeply focused on this “Beyond the Line” series that I’ve forgotten to even say hello! I am still here in beautiful Colorado, and let me tell you, the scenery is the perfect backdrop for the soul-searching I’ve been doing.

As I’ve spent the last four days walking the corridors of my mind, I’ve realized I am never truly alone in there; God is ever-present in my thoughts, gently nudging me toward the truth. While I am still wrestling with my blog’s title, I’ve come face-to-face with a new question—a mirror, if you will.

I had to ask myself: How would I feel if a White woman titled her blog “White Women Have It Going On”?

Would I be offended? Would I see it as a wall designed to keep me out, or would I have the curiosity to venture inside and see why she felt that way? This question is vital because if I want to cross the color line and show that God is about faith, not race, I have to ensure that the door I’ve built is one that everyone feels invited to walk through.

If we want a world where we are seen as equals, we have to be willing to look into the mirror and ask if we are projecting the same unity we crave. …I’m learning that ‘having it going on’ isn’t about standing apart—it’s about standing together. But I have to ask you: Have you ever had to look in the mirror and realize your ‘safe space’ might look like a ‘closed space’ to someone else? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments. See you tomorrow!

A Prayer for Constitutional Equality

Heavenly Father, we thank You that before any laws were written on paper, You wrote the law of equality upon the human heart. We pray in alignment with the truth that all people are created equal, endowed by You with the sacred right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of purpose. Help us to live out that truth in our daily walk. Let us not just speak of equality, but let us be the builders of a society where every color is celebrated and every soul is honored as Your masterpiece. Amen.

The Takeaway

Empathy is the ultimate bridge-builder. When we stop to ask, “How would I feel on the other side of this?” we open the door for God to show us a more excellent way to lead.

One response to “The Mirror of Truth: Would I Walk Through This Door?”

  1. Annette Avatar

    I’m right there with you—I read my own posts every day too! It helps me stay honest with myself and make sure I’m practicing what I preach. Plus, I like to double-check for any little mistakes I might have missed. Writing is a journey for me, but I always strive to give it my all, just as we should in every part of life. Wishing you a wonderful day! —Annette

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I’m Annette

Welcome. I’m so glad you’re here.

This is a space for the ‘unspoken’ stories. As a Black woman who has journeyed through childhood trauma and family alienation to find healing in God’s grace, I know what it’s like to feel lost in the shadows.

But I also know the light on the other side. Today, my life is a testimony of prayer, the joy of a second chance in marriage, and the strength of a heart reclaimed by faith. Whether you are healing from the past, navigating a diverse family, or deepening your walk with God—you are not alone. Let’s walk this path together.

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