I’m a person that do not like to ask people for favors. And I really become leery when others offer to help me. My feelings aren’t because I’m too proud or I have problem with accepting help. It’s just down through the years other’s expected more of me than they gave and request more of me than I was usually willing to give. So, now, if I can’t get a task done then it goes pretty much undone. At least until I figure out how to do it myself since I want to avoid the depressing feelings of being used.
Lord, is this truly what healthy looks like?
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