I usually post on Fridays but Essence has a hot topic about a White man who calls his Black wife racial slurs during intimate moments. Many readers feel the letter is a fake. Others feel the woman is getting what she deserves and many are voicing disdained. I on the other hand am keeping mouth shut until I give the matter some thought; however, I am taking a poll to see when it is permissible for racial slurs to enter into a conversation, if ever.